He knows how much i love him

Romantic Gestures. Romantic gestures are more than words. They go beyond the surface. Anyone can say words, but a well thought out romantic gesture shows that you understand their needs. It varies from person to person and it comes down to knowing what your partner would like best. The point of a romantic gesture is to show your partner that you know them better than anyone else. To show that you have been listening and that you want to do something to make their lives a little easier, a little better, or a little more magical.

Nothing is more precious than your time. You are literally telling someone that they are important enough to use your life up… if you want to be morose about it. Even 20 minutes of focused attention can create a huge impact for your relationship. We have a constant link to work and entertainment in our hands at all times. Our brains can multi-task better than any other generation. Media is an addiction that we are all fighting. Meditation can be a huge help when re-learning how to focus.

Allow yourself to sit, without outside stimulus, for as long as you can. This can be very difficult for some people. Especially those with more extroverted tendencies. But, gradually, the amount of time you can sit in silence will grow longer and longer. I promote meditation for many many reasons, and helping you reconnect with your partner is high on that list. If you find your mind wandering or feel that itch in the back of your mind that tells you to check your Instagram, take a deep breath and re-focus on your partner.

Even if your partner is on their phone. They will be able to feel a greater intensity to your presence and, in most cases, will reflect that back to you. It does amazing things for us. But, if we let it run our lives, it can destroy our real-life relationships. In the end, it is escapism and everyone knows that on some level. Sometimes, when things get too comfortable, we can fear any sort of change that might end things.

Sometimes we all need a little love and assurance. This article was originally published at The Good Men Project. But being sensitive to his needs and emotions lets him know you love him, even if loving him in that moment means putting pepperoni on half the pizza, even though you think it "makes the rest of the pizza taste like pepperoni. When you give him hugs or kisses "just because. He knows it and you know it. When you send him a ton of emojis.

No, he doesn't know what they mean. No one is going to sit there and decipher your Millennial hieroglyphics. But he knows that you put in the effort to hand-pick 50 emojis so that means Unless they're all sobbing-face emojis. You've both likely had at least one toxic relationship where trust was an issue. But trusting that he is where he says he is or knowing he's not snooping through your phone is huge.

Picking out amazing, thoughtful gifts. Some people just aren't good at gift-giving. That's fine. It's a real skill. But if you can put a lot of thought behind a gift — whether it's something homemade full of inside jokes and memories, or even just something you saw him eyeing in a store and then snuck back to get it — it shows you care, that you pay attention, and that you make an effort. Standing your ground on an argument because you know it's what's right for the relationship.

All right, so in the moment, he might think it means something way different than "I love you" when you try to explain why he can't buy a Jet-ski, but getting into heated arguments or talking him down from quitting his job on the spot Sending him little messages to show you're "thinking about him.

Letting him keep that shirt you both know is awful. Yes, he should have thrown away that T-shirt from his brother's friend's open mic Battle of the Bands, but damn it, he loves it, and you looking past the holes in the collar means the world to him.

Apologizing when it's clear you fucked up. There will be times in your relationship when he is in the wrong. There will be times when you're in the wrong.